Thursday, April 16, 2009

Since not much is going on...

I thought I would post some pics. Some you may have seen, some not.

I feel so blessed to have such wonderful kids and that my girls have found awesome men to compliment them.

I also feel so fortunate to found my Mister. I so believe in fate. I didn't want to go to the Medical staff party. I was sick and felt like shit. He didn't want to go either. But, we both showed up.


I think I was at a turning point in my life. I had been alone for 3 years. I had grown into a very self reliant, mature woman. I do believe I was close to the point where I would be undateable. I was becoming to set in my ways, too in dependant.

I don't know if you all remember, but I was hesitant and didn't think he was for me in the long term. I had a list of all the things I wanted in a man. He had them all but he also had one that I didn't want.

A small child. I have raised my kids, enjoyed them and now I'm almost done. I have been able to take care of myself and enjoy life. I wasn't sure I could do it all again, especially a child I have not raised myself.

But then I realized that if I really love Mr. J that if I don't accept his son it's like not accepting a vital part of him, like his heart or a lung. I mean really! I know how much my kids mean to me.

I finally met little dude and it was love at first sight. Watching my Mister with his little guy made me love him even more. Little dude was slow to warm up but by the second encounter, he was talking my head off and asking ME to get him a drink.

I want to post his picture because he is so adorable but I will refrain.


Chocolate Covered Daydreams said...

I know what you mean. I didn't expect there to be a Baby Boo when I started dating Boo. When I fell in love, I realized that that also meant her being a part of my life too. I adore her as much as I know that you adore Mr. J Jr. It's just hard when there's "the mom" in the picture too. I hate baby mama drama and off and on, there has been some. I'm just hoping that it eventually disappears.

How old is Mr. J, Jr?

Julie said...

Awwwww. So how much time to you spend with Little J?

Soxy Deb said...

I remember. Way back when. You were all, he's nice but not for me. Maybe a date or two, but that's it.
I'm so glad you were wrong. I love that your this happy. Both of you.

Danica Lynn said...

I remember when I first met LW's youngest daughter (the older one lives out of state). We had dated probably 6 months. I wasn't sure I wanted a man with kids since I have my own issues trying to get pregnant, but the second I saw him with her my heart melted and I instantly more in love with LW.

I'm so happy for you. You are just amazing woman and Mr. J is lucky to have you!

♥georgie♥ said...

I am just so happy for you TG!!!
Those pix are beautiful!

Fragrant Liar said...

Your family is beautiful. It's so nice when everything works out the way it's supposed to, isn't it?

"J" said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww - I love the pics!!! =) Great post! I'm so glad you met mini Mr. "J"! HA! Tooooooo SWEET!!! How is the ex? Have you had any dealings? It's soooooooooo bad for me and Mr. "S" and his ex but I don't let that get to me.

I'm so glad you pushed passed the "I DON"T LIKES" about Mr J! I'm also sooooooooooooooooo HAPPY you are HAPPY!!! You deserve that!!!!

I've missed you too girlie! I'm getting ready to do a short post! I went fishing this past some fun goofy pics!!!