Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Mr J Update;)

I have a date with Mr J on Friday night. He is taking me to a fancy smancy restaurant which is usually not my style but I'll let him impress me;) I'm going shopping today for the perfect first date, knock him dead outfit!

I'm excited. I have only been on one date since my spilt from VIP and that date was um.... BORING!

Mr J is far from boring which also has me a little concerned. I think my single friends know what I mean. So, I don't want to sound like I'm, well easy but, if he makes a move, how soon is too soon?
Girlfriend says three dates but she sooo never listens to her own advice;)

I have pondering this so long I'm freaking myself out. I need some more advice!

Help!





5 comments:

Soxy Deb said...

As you know I am not single, but if I were and if there was chemistry, the first date wouldn't be too soon to me. I'm sure I'm easy though, so you may not want to take my advice (lmao).

Chocolate Covered Daydreams said...

Okay...so is this a fancy place that you'll be dining at? If it's fancy smancy....test the water and flirt a little and see if he takes the bait (if he's worth the flirt). If he seems genuinely interested and not just in it for the one night stand, then, by all means, let your feelings lead the way.

Being single at 45 is definitely new for me. Before dating Boo, I met some interesting characters that I wouldn't even consider kissing on the first date. The farther I went was a hug to say, "Thank you for spending money on me for a nice meal."

Number one question you should ask yourself before there's any first or second base or homerun..."will I regret this tomorrow?"

Hope this helps! I want to hear all about it!

Julie said...

NO SLEEPING WITH HIM ON THE FIRST DATE.

Been there, done it. And at this age we do not want to seem desperate!

I say 5 dates.

I held out for 2 months with my ex, and finally slept with him when he hand delivered a dozen long stemmed roses to my office on Valentine's Day. We were engaged 7 months later.

"J" said...

I'm soooooooooooooooo EXCITED yall are going out on a date!!! YIPPEE!!!

You have to show us what you are wearing!!! I can't wait to see!!!

Don't be to easy!!! Let him wine and dine you a little!!! =)

Yall just have fun! If it's "THERE" it's "THERE"! It's all about what you feel!!! Heck, have fun! No stressing!!!!!!

(((HUGS)))

Julie said...

OK, what's the wardrobe for this?

You bought a sexy matching bra and undie combo didn't you? LOL

Bom chicka wow wow